The microwave whirrs and the kernels pop loudly until the beeping that alerts you it’s ready to be poured into your bowl. You click its door shut and exit the kitchen.

“Kids! The popcorn’s–“

There in the dining room, your daughter is frozen, looking between you and your son, who is covering his ears and bumping his head against the wall. The puzzle pieces are strewn everywhere. “Dad, he just–“

“What happened?” you ask as you rush over to protect his head. He knocks your hand away.

“I don’t know!” your daughter says. “We were just sorting out the pieces with similar colors. It came out of nowhere!”

You might already be trying to figure out what’s going on here. Maybe you can think of things that have similarly triggered your own child–the beeping of the microwave, the sound competing with the TV in the next room, sister not playing fairly, a missing piece. But you might also be thinking, sometimes it really does just seem to come “out of nowhere.”

Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) works in large part by identifying the function of a behavior. We recognize four functions: attention, access to tangibles (though this can be a little misleading–I’ll get to that in a minute), escape or avoidance, and automatic. It isn’t abnormal for a behavior, or something someone does, to serve more than one function. For example, a child screaming, crying, and throwing themselves to the ground when told it’s time to clean up is likely to be engaging in these behaviors to both escape (or temporarily avoid) the task of cleaning up while also trying to access the tangible toys they have been playing with. A teen who starts banging on the bathroom door demanding their shower time as soon as anyone else tries to get ready is likely to be trying to access the shower, trying to access someone’s attention, and maybe even automatically reinforced by the behavior itself (loudly banging around is fun).